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Planning
Consider all of the places that have been special in your dating relationship--
maybe the restaurant where you had your first date, the swing under
a tree where you shared your first kiss, a favorite park or walking
trail, etc. Create clues that would help her to guess each place.
Using a map, design a scavenger hunt for your girlfriend. Decide the
order in which you want her to visit these favorite places. You'll
plant clues at each place leading her to the next place. Place the
engagement ring in a miniature treasure chest.
Execution
Plant the clues at each spot in advance. Make certain they are secure
and not too difficult to find; you may even want to involve people
whenever possible to ensure none of them are lost (ask the restaurant
hostess or movie theatre ticket booth worker, etc.) Explain what
you're doing, maybe even show them your girlfriend's photo so they
know to be on the lookout for her. People love romantic proposals;
they'll be happy to help. Keep a cell phone handy and instruct your
girlfriend to call you if she gets lost or can't find the next clue.
With the clue, place an explanation of why you selected the place
and a favorite memory you've shared there.
Tell your girlfriend to meet you and hand her the clue that will
take her to the first spot. Explain that she's going on a treasure
hunt and that you'll see her at her final destination. Make that
final spot very special, if possible the place she's said she'd
always like to be married. Perhaps a small, quaint chapel, large
peaceful church, ornate temple or pier overlooking the river.
Wait for your girlfriend to arrive at the final point on the hunt.
When she walks over to you, explain that for as long as you've known
her she's been your treasure. Ask her to allow you to treasure her
for always as you pull out the box
"Surprise"
Date
Planning
This date depends upon several wonderful little surprises, each
building up for the greatest surprise of you asking her to marry
you over a romantic dinner. Feel free to add any other small surprises
you might think of. For the day you've chosen to pop the question,
tell her you're throwing her a "surprise" date and that
she should reserve the entire day.
Plan a nice breakfast that you'll cook and serve for her. Pick
up the necessary ingredients. Make reservations at a very deliver
a note to her that reads, "Say 'yes.'" Then, approach
the table and get down on one knee. You can tell her that she never
ceases to surprise and amaze you, or that you're surprised that
an incredible person like her could love you, yadda yadda
In other words, ask her to marry you!
Magic
Act
Planning
Find someone in your community who performs as a magician for
parties. Hire to him to perform a 45 min. show at the local Mall
and help you propose to your girlfriend. Arrange the exact time
and place in the mall that he is to perform. Show him your girlfriend's
photo. Check with the Mall authorities to make certain it is okay
(they shouldn't argue with getting a free entertainer -- explain
that you're paying for the magician to perform.)
Execution
Suggest that you and your girlfriend go for a shopping trip during
the time you've asked the magician to perform. "Just happen"
to walk upon him (there should already be a small crowd gathered.)
When he sees you he is to ask for volunteers for his next trick
and choose your girlfriend. Arrange with him ahead of time how you'd
like his help. Maybe he could do an ordinary trick, then call for
another volunteer and bring you up. Maybe you'd rather he call you
both up together in the first place.
At any rate, once you're both up there, have him do a card trick
involving the Queen of Diamonds. You should be asked to hold up
the card at the end. This is your cue to explain to your girlfriend
that she is the only Queen of Diamonds for you and present the ring.
Best wishes as you plan this special day. Remember that a bit of
creativity and the element of surprise go a long way. However you
ask her, we hope that your proposal is a wonderful and warm moment
that neither of you will ever forget.
Courtesy: romancetips.com
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